Not every position is about acrobatics. Some are about closeness — eye contact, skin everywhere, and that feeling of being completely present with each other. These are the ones couples come back to when the goal isn't just orgasm, it's connection.
For maximum eye contact
- Missionary, modified. Elbows on the mattress, faces close, foreheads touching. Unbroken eye contact changes everything.
- Lotus. Sitting face to face, legs wrapped around each other. Deep, slow, and intensely intimate.
- Seated lap. One partner sits in a chair, the other straddles. Kissing distance the whole time.
- Legs on shoulders. A missionary variation with your legs on their shoulders — deeper, closer, more intense.
For spooning and softness
- Spooning. Lying on your sides, entering from behind. Perfect for slow mornings and aftercare.
- Folded spoon. The receiving partner pulls their knees to their chest for a deeper angle while staying curled together.
- Butterfly. On the edge of the bed, partner standing — you see everything, and your hands are free to touch.
- Lazy dog. From behind but lying down, both resting. Slow, comfortable, intimate.
For power and play
- Cowgirl. You on top, controlling the pace. Eye contact optional — and devastating when you do.
- Reverse cowgirl. A visual for your partner and freedom of movement for you.
- Doggy style. The classic for depth and angle. Add a hand in their hair for spice.
- Standing. Against a wall or over furniture — spontaneous, urgent, exciting.
For when you want to try something new
- Pretzel dip. A twisty side position that's more comfortable than it looks.
- The bridge. The receiving partner arches up — intense angle, great for g-spot pressure.
- Scissors. Lying side by side facing each other — lazy, connected, perfect for making out while you move.
The one thing that matters more than position
Your body map is different from anyone else's — so the 'best position' is the one that hits your spots. Explore with our interactive body map, find your zones, and bring that map to bed. And if you want to make a game of it, our positions guide has difficulty ratings and tips for every move.