💫 Positions Guide
30+ positions with difficulty ratings and pro tips
Sex Positions Guide: Find Comfort, Connection and Variety
This guide covers more than 30 sex positions, grouped by what you want from the moment: closer eye contact, deeper penetration, less effort or a playful change of pace. Every position includes a difficulty rating and practical notes, so you can choose one that fits your bodies and your mood.
No position is mandatory, and none is a test of skill. The best choice is the one that feels comfortable for both of you. Read the notes together, keep lube nearby, and change position whenever something stops feeling good.
How to play
- Pick a goal first — connection, comfort, depth or novelty — then browse positions that match.
- Read the difficulty and intimacy notes before you try, especially if either of you has mobility limits.
- Start slowly and adjust with pillows, wedges or a different angle until you are both comfortable.
- Check in during and after; laughter and a change of plan are part of the game.
Frequently asked questions
How many positions are in the guide?
More than 30, each with difficulty, intimacy notes and practical tips.
What is the best position for beginners?
Missionary, spooning and side-by-side are easy to adjust. Start with one of those and modify as needed.
Do certain positions guarantee an orgasm?
No. Pleasure depends on stimulation, communication and mood rather than a single position.
Can we modify a position?
Yes. Pillows, furniture and small angle changes make most positions more comfortable.